i cant say NO

/hihi
 HI fellas.., dont know how much often/how much people read this.. but then too i like to write here..its  like a kind of diary or somethin.. dont know y i blog .. anyway this post is bout " NO "

It is really a tough task.. to say NO. I try to weave around so many excuses and stories to justify my NO.. so sounds, more plastic, more unreal or say unpractical... I often become mocking stock for others and add guilt in myself fo the same reason... When I can’t weave a story.. I overstretch myself to accomplish that "yes" (most often)  But, now I am learning.. though late but better never..  .. to say a straight NO.. its not easy to rub my old bad habit from roots..but am tryin.

This is the only bad quality in my dad. And I inherited it tooo.  My dad never told me No, for anything, i mean ANYTHING AT ALL.......    Later in my life, when I found myself in same trap of “not saying NO”, often lead to things i dont wanna so. This bad habit of my dad, not only made him suffer but also made me mature, very late in life.. He is still suffering.. as he hasn’t learn to say NO. I am worried for him… as I love him a lot alot se bhi zyada...!

Life is not as good as it was before.. it is getting tougher and tougher, day by day.. and without art of saying NO, we can only add on our problems to make things toughestt. I need to learn to say NO, not only to people around, even to myself.. when I am not able to say straight NO and overstretch.. overstress…. if I am want to seek real happinessssssssssss.
 :)

#signin off

LOVE & BOLLYWOOD

Bollywood frequently screws up our conception of reality.
I recently watched a crappy hindi flick, and it was very (very) hard to control my Rage at the freaks of nature that created that movie.  /shock

Boy meets Girl.

Girl -  Airy headed, bimbo in designer clothes, preferably working for an NGO.

Boy - Disillusioned chap, High on muscles, She shows him the right direction to his life.

Extras (So that I repurchase the popcorn that I have eaten up in the first 10 minutes of the movie because the movie STRETCHES longer.)

Boy bumbles along.

Girl (चंट लड़की) trap him.

LMFAO.

The poor bastard doesn't know whats coming.

Throw in some dancing on the desert i.e. the Dream Sequence. /XD

And then some stupid problem i.e. गुंडे , मवाली , आतंकवादी ,परिवार या प्यार or some crap.

The makers of such movies inflict untold misery on the unsuspecting masses./no

We should burn their production houses down.

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I frequently say, प्यार किस चिड़िया का नाम है ? ( what kind of bird love is? )

How can one "Fall in love" in this manner?
"Love at first sight"- Its just a pretty line :D


The entire concept is so mundane(lack of intrest)! Its been repeated since time eternity.
But just because its been repeated an endless number of tyms, doesn't mean its a credible fact.

When someone says those three words, what does he/she mean?

I shall call you and expect you to call me all the time?.. :O
Even if I don't expect you to, we invariably shall, as I need to keep telling you how much I love you (or vice verse) ALL THE TIME!..
You are my Sugar plum fairy! Koochie-Koochie-Coo!! Yay! /blur
I wanna marry you. (Soggy love-story type)


And many more to add.

I really don't know what this THING is..

Sounds like a beautiful illusion, that if shattered,
shall leave you rough around the edges...

CLARIFICATION : no i have neva eva xperienced this had learned from many of the love stories, movies, my friendz DEVDAS which turned out to be succesfull and some heartbroken...else hasan (my bro) will assume that am in love.. :p 

sometimes i wonder if there were no broken hearts then the music industries will be at big losssss.. ;)
anyway.,,
Stay single, Stay happy!
bye..


#hv signin off fo the day

random poem...

When every moment

can be another season of your life,

Why do you repent?

Why do you cry?

Just turn the page

and hold your breath.

Smoothen those wrinkles of age,

Now shake free that fear of death.

In waiting for that time,

Why are you whiling away this life?

Breathe flower child,

Breathe, it'll all be fine!!!

alone in the world

There are moment when you feel no one is there with you.... no one accompanies yu.. no one supports yu... no one encourage yu....and so onnn...
i guess everyone had xperienced an moment like that ..if not yu will soon..!

this world did have friend and foe. when it came to test ..no one showed,all i had was god and hope, things i learned was to fight alone..

Usually the people make the biggest impact in ur lyf .. stays fo the shortest period of tym..

#signin off

two cups off coffffffffffeeeeeee..!!

cofeeee.. addicted to it.. btw here presenting an story... inspiring.. hope yu like this...




When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee .

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open are as between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous'yes..'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,'said the professor as the laughter subsided,'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they remained, our life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else---the small stuff.'If you put the sand into the jar first,'he continued,'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

'Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled and said,I'm glad you asked.The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.  :)))))

bored>>..then juz..think.!!!

Are you BORED ??

Ok. Jus think about all these times of your lives :

• 1) When first time a computer came in your home. (You might be in 4th-9th std..)
• 2) The last time you cried. (Only for Boys, Ladkiyon ka toh roz ka hai :P)
• 3) Think of the Begger for which you had the most amount of sympathy, still couldnt help him/her.
• 4) The time when you got embarrassed in front of more than a few people..(Like a Classroom, public place)
• 5) The first time when you wore a watch. (Do you even remember ?)
• 6) The first time you got a personal phone.
• 7) The time when you abused someone very badly with all your guts out. (On social networking or in Real)
• 8) The time when you bunked school periods by taking part in co-curricular activites.
• 9) The last time you got a lil heart attack when your phone was found missing.
• 10) The last time you dressed nicely, but no one complimented :( :P
•  11) The lil guilt in your heart for something ever happened...(Move On from this point asap...)
• 12) The time when you're home alone and stuffs you do.(loud music,etc)
• 13) The scene of a film in which you thought you'd have been the Hero.
•  14) The piece of mind you got after a loooong marathon of Exams.
• 15) The Road Romio's of your locality.
• 16) The lil guilt when you threw away unused notebooks. (SAVE PAPER !!)
• 17) The time when you hadn't studied anything for an exam, but still your paper went Rocking, coz of light invigilation or anything else.
• 18) The time when your teacher made you popular in your class for a silly reason & your classmates laughed their guts out.
• 19) When you chopped down a girl/boy who was being a moron with his/her attitude. (No Fights, Only Cold Blows.)
• 20) When you got Super Excited for something, but the plan failed completely :(

you must have had some good old memory to share with us.

                              How many things among the above have happened with you? Comment your Score outa 20.

Spread a 'LOL' if you can.

Think of the good times. Not the bad ones you keep thinking everday.

If good times are gone, Even Bad will go soon.

Keep Rocking.. \m/

#hv SIGNINOFF

womans day..

‎"WOMAN"
The world says it is difficult to understand a woman bcoz she is full of contradiction, full of vanity, jealousy, greed nd ego... Her mind  is full of insatiable desires fo wealth, luxury and lavish lifestyles...
But the truth is, a woman is a reservoir of Love, overflowing with compassion, caring and forgiving. With a Heart full of sweetness, A voice soothing and delicate. A woman makes worlds troubles melt, with just her full, genuine smile. The kindness and tender feelings only a woman can give usually go unrecognized. I wish the world were kinder to this kindest souls of creation...!!! and that is the WOMAN.

"You can only push a woman once until she walks out in your life on her own, So be careful and make sure this is really wat yu want! Because once she'll turns around, she isn't coming back anymore"................................................

                                  HAPPY WOMAN DAY

              

An (HOLI)-DAY..!!

yo.. its a holi festival today... festival of colours.. a bright cool day.. along with its woman day also..
HAPPY HOLI and HAPPY WOMAN DAY..!!

so here are pic of holi.. 

holi is something all kids look forward to playing...:)

kids playing with colrss and water... its funn..:)

a lazy monday... 5 march 2012

havent been posting in here.. well .. i dont know what to post.. A LAZY MONDAy
good evening folkss..!! hope everyone had a good start of week..

talking bout myself well it was off to a great start.. then it was rough. but now it's back to great..! i woke at 6am,naah..actually my alarm woke.. i snozzed it upto 8am..(weekends are so shortss)  then got ready for college... and guess what i remembered..I HAD A TEST ON MONDAY..crapp!!.. though it posponed somehow.. god thankss..:)
i reached a couple of minutes late.. though i managed not to sleep in there.. later there was an casualty (something went wrong in the chemistry lab) they were immediately shifted to hospital.. minor injuries due to blast of test tube containing some hazardous chemical... now everythings allright...

#signin off