xam xam xam

aahh... i am giving more xam than the lectures i have attended.... man.. i cant take thiss........
and two months of xam.. and still continues.. till june..

itz all about writing shit what you studied in the last six month.. each and every detail to be written in a bunch of paper in just 3 hours ; to be exact not even whole 3hrs .. :| /floor

and then this :

zindagi mein agar kush rehna ho , kushi haasil karni ho, kuch jeetna ho toh.... hamesha dil ki suno... agar dil bhi koi jawab na de toh aankhe bandh karke apni maa aur papa ka naam lo..... phir dekhna, har manzil paar kar jaonge, har mushkil aasan ho jaenge jeet tumhari hi hogi, sirf tumhari....  -kkkg  :) 

god blesss me..! :D

wish me luckk .. \m/
#signin off

FRIENDS,FOR ME MORE LIKELY WORTHY PEOPLE IN LIFE...

Has anyone ever asked you this question : 'So tell me about your best friend!'

Its a very simple question really.

Ten years ago, I would have answered it by rattling on and on about all the people I had have ever played with or attended birthday parties of.

But its different now.. i mean i learned real meaning of it,

Now if someone asks me this, I'll tell them that though I hang around with many people and that many count upon me as their friend, I don't have a particular 'group' i belong to or a 'Best friend'. 

well you'l find this crappy...

No, I'm not socially awkward or anything(jus shy) ; I'll warn you at the outset about that! In fact I pride myself of the ability to assess and react to a situation very quickly or adapt to things when needed. However, I do not get the concept of having a "Best Friend" anymore. I don't really think Friendship Day is a big deal either. In fact I'd like to use the term 'WORTHY People I Know' for those people whose lives I touch everyday..

I know their birthdays, I get them good gifts. I cheer them up when I find them feeling low. I laugh with them or at them. I make them bunk classes or teach them things I know. I spend a lot of time with them and at times, I'm nowhere to be found. I'm somebody they can count on, always though I wish I could say the same about them.

They are 'WORTHY People I Know'.

Would I cut off my right arm for one of them? I don't think so.

My concept of Friendship has been pretty much cut and dried. Surgically removed from all emotion - I would say.

It should be a practical arrangement, built along the lines of "Doing to others, what you want them to do to yourself" and "A friend in need is a friend indeed."

Whats the point in being 'friends' when all you are is someone people bitch to about their crabby day? Of course, there' no harm in lending an ear, but that friend should also be the one who hauls you up by the ear when your grades slip.

There is a big difference between People and Friends. Friends are those people who satisfy the conditions given above. People are well...just people. I'm gonna be myself with them, simply because I don't believe in being a hypocrite o sumthing.

Its funny how I operate on a dual frame. I'll talk about detachment from emotions and all that, yet miss those people in private. I'm more sentimental than all of them put together ... - like to see all our memories pictures, fun convo reading again and again...!!

Maybe I have trouble acknowledging how much a person means to me in public. I believe in my actions speaking louder than empty words. Its important for people to know that just because I didn't cry at the farewell, It doesn't mean I'm not sad to be leaving this place and its people..

I don't understand "Groups" either.

We're not 'congregating' like animals do. (Do animals 'congregate'? IDK) Being in a group, I feel, robs one of his individuality. Before taking a decision, you must consult with your friends. If you move too ahead, you're criticized. If you lag behind, you get chucked out. I intend to be responsible for my feeling of 'self-worth' - thank you very much - and not leave it open to judgement by my peers.

Groups also have their own set of behavioral charcteristics. Girls especially, will herd around and yet bitch about each other behind their backs at the first moment they get! It reminds me of wolves attacking a deer together to achieve their objective of getting its meat. The moment they kill it, fights ensue to snatch the largest portion one can.. aahhh sometimes they are opposite of the wolves like sheep (this kinds r hardly anyone left in this world).

I've grown up and learnt to not depend on people. If there's anything to do, I really don't care what people are up to. I'll just go and finish the damn thing! I don't understand why I need to submit the assignment when all my friends are doing so. If I've finished it, I'd like to get it off my hands ASAP. Of course, they're welcome to ask for help, but I really don't see the point in waiting...( apart from lazy tyms wen i jus dont like doin anything.. rarely)

I'll try to answer the question you must be having in your head by now, "Does he even have any friends"?

I do have people I value a lot.

In fact I don't expect anything from them, because I know that they're sure things.. You see, friendships come to play when things happen when you least expect them to.  When you escape security guards together to get into a Fest or steal food from the mess to feed adopted strays. When you cover up for each other. Or finish each other's assignments. Or break down the persons door at 4 am in the night cuz you're hungry. Or call each other up for a timepass. When you indulge in "KADKI MEIN SHARING". Or go and 'tease' girls. Or fight for that last bite of burger.meets one in a while just for sharing all the expreinces. When you discuss every dream and fear with each other. When you don't meet for days, yet can pick up right where you left off at.

When you look at each other and confidently say " We're so fucked!"

"I DO GOT FRIENDS... MORE LIKELY  WORTHY PEOPLE"

That's all folks !! 

#SIGNIN OFF

CHEMISTRy.. not an organic one..

REALationships are only tag with Chemistry , WHY not literature,biology, physics..???????????????????

Interesting question, No?

All relationships are based on emotions, and so the literature. Emotions are based on thoughts and causes certain hormones to secrete from our pituitary/thyroid gland. What are hormones?? Chemicals again. they are chemical messengers........ So, when I talk about body, glands and hormones, I think I am talking about biology, which I proved depend on chemicals so chemistry.

              Now, about physics of relationship. Think of physical appearance. Have you heard beauty lies in viewers eyes?? So, again, our emotions decide physical appearance and also length and breadth of the relationships. Hey! that mean even physics of relations depends on chemicals. Did I prove, all relationships are decided by chemical composition of hormones, triggered by our emotions ?
 When One is depressed, medicines (chemicals again) are given to correct outflow of hormones (chemicals) causing that depression. So it is all CHEMISTRY!!! yeahhh.. /XD   =D>


But the next question came, why certain elements combined to compose a molecule?? Well I can explain the logic behind this, its valence electrons of an element decide, it can bond with which other elements (again depends on valence electron of the connecting element). Like two element of hydrogen to one of oxygen to make water element (H20). But I cannot explain what is valence of a human that decides the bonding with others’.  I say it unexplained CHEMISTRY.

                              Sometimes, one like/hate other person in first glance.(in my case i do that very often,though very rarely turns out to be wrong decision) This bonding / non-bonding and so chemistry behind that thing is unexplainable. Though logically emotions are extension of thoughts but it prove vice versa in many cases. Sometimes, one’s mind says, why you like that person? He is not good, but your emotions towards him are so strong that all logics saying that HE IS BAD, just not work.  And so is true for extremely negative emotions, that is, hatred...


                         We often talk about relationships between two persons, as chemistry between those two. When two are in love , chemistry is called GOOD., otherwise BAD Chemistry or incompatibility or…just not done..

                       With some of my friend, I just never think before talking any thing in this world, though I hardly know him/her, but many times even relations of 2-3 decades, not generate that chemistry or say trust or relation..when even in year,  friendship turns out to be so well.. though badly ends..

/bye

consistent 16marks...

/hihi

well .. after my low result in sem3(ya i kno its weird on my part-as being first time in life gotcha backlog) .. have got consisitently 16 marks in all subjects..out of 20..!!
though being an 80% some what satisfied with my performance..

 anD i can saay that this are my marks... my hardwork...
HARDWORK SURE PAYS OFF     /sweat


10 Things I Learned from “Failure”:

1.  There really is no such thing as failure. Yes, things can go wrong or not according to plan, but really there is no such thing as failure because there is always a very good reason why things didn’t work out and a lesson you need to learn. In the long run, whatever happens is ultimately for your highest good (even if you can’t see how that could ever be true).

2.  If you want something for the wrong reasons, it will never work out the way you want it to in the end.

3.  You can use the fact that things didn’t initially go as you desired as one of your greatest motivators for success in the future. If you choose to look at things correctly, your passion will be reignited.

4.  In one way or another, persistence, dedication and hard work always eventually pay off.

5.  After something goes wrong, if you choose to look for the lessons and turn your attention to improving at whatever it is you were trying to do (instead of just getting frustrated or feeling defeated) you really can dramatically and immediately improve your performance and take things to the next level.

6.  After you fail, three of the best things you should do are: (1) explore the reasons why (2) be open to learning and (3) if it is something you really want and just feel you were meant to do … then immediately recommit to trying again.

7.  It’s better to try, take chances, and not succeed than it is to just sit back and wonder what would have happened because you are afraid to fail.

8.  The only bad thing that can result from “failing” is if you lose the courage to try again.

9.  There’s no need to be embarrassed because every single person fails at something at some point in their life. You are not alone. mind this one..

10.  Some of the best growth happens as a result of things going wrong. Go for what you want. You have nothing to lose and so many things to gain..

Live Today Better than Yesterday
bye...see ya..